One Night Stand – using the term itself is a big sin. I am not sure what you think of me, right now, reading the title. But, you may change it by end of this post.
We all have some stories that we hesitate to share with the world. The major reason here is, we don’t like the judgments people pass. So, most of us prefer lie over the truth!
This is my story…. my experience!
This happened with me back in 2007, in Melbourne. I had a boyfriend. I don’t want to reveal his name, so let’s call him X. The only problem for me with him was, he never used to get upset or angry with my behavior even if I was wrong ever.
I was Upset One Day…
As they say, having too much sweet overtime will make you fed up with it, I was very much bored of him saying, “Yes” and “OK” for everything I said and I did. I was too upset one day that I wanted him to get angry on me. I went out by the time he was home, and dropped a message saying, “I would come back only if you are genuinely upset with me.”
The only time he was away from me was, his work. Otherwise, he never used to go anywhere without me. But, I used to hangout with friends, often.
So, I was hoping he would be upset if I was outside for the whole night. But, where should I go?
Where Did I Go?
He would definitely get to know if I was with my friends. So, I didn’t want to go to any of my friend’s place. As I didn’t know where to go, I killed time from 6 pm to around 11 pm by travelling within the city.
Then, went to a restaurant nearby. There were only about 3 to 4 people sitting there. Someone (Let’s name Y) was observing me throughout, and approached me while I was getting out of the place.
Y: “Are you okay?”
Me: “Yes… pretty much!”
Y: “I am sorry to say this. I have been observing you. You do not seem to be okay”
Then I shared the whole story. Meanwhile I was getting lots of messages and calls from X, saying he was missing me and asking me to come back home. But, those were not the messages I was waiting for.
Y: “Where you gonna go now?”
Me: “Not sure”
Y: “You can come to my home. Stay there. And, keep him informed that you were with another man. Maybe, he would be upset then!”
What Did I Do?
First, I was not OK with the idea. I didn’t want to go to a stranger’s place. But, later got convinced, and went along.
Dropped a message to X, “I am here with a boy on a one night stand. I won’t come back till you are angry with me!”
My man was not upset with me at all. He said, he knew me. He said, he was just missing me, and wanted me to be home. Even Y drafted some messages on my behalf and sent to him, and dozed off after a while.
I couldn’t sleep. I watched couple of movies through the night. Y woke up in the morning, and asked, “Wassup. What is your guy saying?”
Me: “He is not believing that I am with a stranger, and that too with a boy”, and shown all the messages my boyfriend sent.
Y: “Just chill now and call him. He is missing you very badly. Don’t upset him more. You should feel so blessed to have such a man in your life”, and completely brainwashed me.
Did I Go Back Home?
Then I shared the address to my BF, and he reached the place in no time. We both went emotional -the Bollywood way. And, meanwhile Y came out. I introduced HER to my boyfriend.
He started laughing, “Is this the boy you were talking about? I knew that!”
Y was not a boy, it was a girl. She is one of my good friends now. We still keep laughing at the messages we both drafted and sent to my ex that night.
I am sure, you must be imagining a boy throughout the story. So sorry to disappoint you!
That’s how my first and last one night stand experience went!
Just a quick question, what did you think when you first read the title of this post? What is your opinion on one night stand? Do you think, we should judge others for the way they live their lives their own way?
I personally, don’t like to judge anyone by looking at their lifestyle. For me, it’s all about how he or she is with me. I really don’t like the way women being judged everywhere.
Men or women – it’s their life!
Every human should have their own style of living and a good level of freedom. All that matters is, they should not hurt someone else for their own pleasure and happiness.